Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things we will ever go through in life. It can be difficult to come to terms with their absence and find ways to remember them and keep their memory alive. Here are 12 ways to honor and remember your loved one each month.
January
Write letters or journal entries about your loved one and your memories of them. Putting your thoughts and feelings down on paper can be a therapeutic way to process your grief and remember your loved one.
February
Share stories and memories of your loved one with others in person or through social media. Sharing your memories with others can help you feel connected to your loved one and comfort those who knew them.
March
Plant a tree or garden in their memory. Planting something to honor your loved one can be a meaningful way to remember them and create a lasting tribute.
April
Make a donation to an important charity or cause to your loved one. If your loved one had a particular interest or passion, you might want to honor their memory by making a donation to a related charity or cause.
May
Create a memory book or scrapbook with photos, mementos, and memories of your loved one. Putting together a collection of photos and mementos from your time together can be a healing and meaningful way to remember your loved one.
June
Celebrate special occasions and holidays in their memory, such as their birthday or the anniversary of their death. Marking these important days can be a way to honor your loved one and keep their memory alive.
July
Create a memorial that is meaningful to your loved one at a special location, such as a park or beach. If a particular place holds special significance for you and your loved one, you might want to create a memorial there.
August
Participate in a memory walk or other fundraising event in their honor. Many organizations host events to raise awareness and funds for different causes, and you might want to participate in one of these events in honor of your loved one.
September
Create a memorial fund or scholarship in their name. If your loved one had a particular talent or passion, consider setting up a fund or scholarship in their name to help others pursue their interests.
October
Engrave their name or a special phrase on a piece of jewelry or another personal item. Having a physical reminder of your loved one can be comforting, and engraving their name or a special phrase on a piece of jewelry or other personal item can be a way to keep them close to you at all times.
November
Commission a piece of art or music in their honor. If your loved one had a particular appreciation for art or music, you might want to commission a piece in their honor. This could be a painting, sculpture, or other work of art, or it could be a piece of music composed specifically for your loved one.
December
Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to help you cope with your grief. Losing a loved one is a difficult and emotional experience, and it is important to have a support system to help you navigate your grief and find ways to remember your loved one.
Remembering a loved one who has passed away can be a powerful and healing way to cope with grief and honor their memory. There are many different ways to do this, and it is important to find the best work for you. Whether it is through writing letters, planting a garden, or commissioning a piece of art, there are many ways to keep your loved one’s memory alive and find comfort in their absence. It is also important to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist during this difficult time, as they can provide valuable guidance and help you navigate your grief.